There are only two large bodies of Mencken correspondence indisputably significant to his private or internal life: One is with Sara Haardt, whom he married ("Mencken & Sara: A Life in Letters," edited by Marion Elizabeth Rodgers, from McGraw Hill, 1987). Now comes "In Defense of Marion," a superbly chosen and edited body of letters by and to Marion Bloom and her sister, Estelle, with Mencken , Theodore Dreiser and other players. It includes a brilliantly encompassing ongoing commentary by Edward A. Martin, a professor of English at Middlebury and author of "H.L. Mencken and the Debunkers."
What does it show the man to be? Brilliant, almost unimaginably original, intense, immensely energetic - and not very nice. Not very nice at all.
Mencken met Marion in 1914, when he was 34 and and she was 23, both unmarried. They soon became lovers, meeting in New York, Washington, seldom in Baltimore. Their relationship continued on one level or another until Mencken married Sara in 1930.
Mencken destroyed Marion's letters to him in 1923, expressing anger over her sudden marriage - a marriage which ended quickly. There can be little doubt Marion did it primarily to jolt Mencken. The new book has been compiled from her copies of letters and ones kept by Estelle and others.
During much of their 16 years of on-again-off-again involvement, Mencken was carrying on with other women, mainly glamorous and successful. Marion was smart, a lovely if never fully developed writer, but of very simple farm-village background. Mencken, for all his flares and originality, was basically a very doctrinaire Victorian-Edwardian citified bourgeois.
There is no question he was genuinely in love with Marion, and she with him. They obviously found each other intensely exciting, sexually and emotionally and at some levels intellectually. He was certainly attentive. Both showed delight, irony, affection. Clearly this woman was a major part of his life - and just as clearly, he walked away from her, wide awake and standing up.
Why? The best speculation as to his conscious reasoning is that he saw her as not "presentable" in the contemporary conventional manner of Mencken's personal life. Sara was presentable. But the cause was deeper.
In all, this book offers not only a fascinating and often repellent view of Mencken, but also a broad window into an enormously exciting time and collection of people through much of the first half of the 20th century.
So rich and frequent was the correspondence - lush fruit of an era of letter writing - that Mencken and both sisters examine the possibilities and evasions of marriage again and again. But perhaps Mencken's most explicit statement on not marrying Marion was in a June 7, 1921, letter to Estelle: "Like all other right-thinking gals she wants a husband... For me to marry her would be sheer insanity. The first time she began her childish nonsense about Kant, Hegel, materialism, etc., I'd walk out of the house and never come back." Marion was a Christian Scientist, which Mencken regarded as lunatic.
'Enormity of love'
Marion wrote to Estelle on Aug. 2, 1923: "You know all of my affair with M. I doubt if you do know, however, of the enormity of the love I have never been able to stamp out." In 1926, Marion wrote that she still was plotting to snare Mencken into marriage. She never succeeded. She was a deeply unhappy and unfulfilled person ever after. She died on March 10, 1975, long bitter, lonely and virtually destitute.
Source : http://articles.baltimoresun.com/1996-05-26/news/1996147017_1_mencken-marion-bloom-lettersThanks you for read my article In Defense Of Debunkers